What Men Really Enjoy During Sex That Women Constantly Overlook.

Given that we enjoy the Bedroom Olympics so much, we would be better lovers and know what our partners want—working with a lot of female clients, I realize that’s not the case.

They’d tell me stories about how the guy is great, but is a selfish lover. They’d also express their concerns about their own insecurities. Often, not being experienced enough or knowing how to satisfy him properly.

If you’re in a purely sexual relationship with a sociopath, I can see where that may be a problem.

In this article, I am going to go through what men are thinking during sex and what we really want from women.

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Men Look At Sex As A Performance

Both sexes want to perform well and satisfy their partner. There is no doubt in that. However, men feel it’s extremely important to satisfy their partner, one they like and want to be in a relationship with. If they don’t, they take it very personally.

Men will get performance anxiety where they get in their head and completely lose their erections.

A simpler explanation is: you can’t have an erection when you’re anxious. There is a reason people say, “The best organ during sex is the brain.”

If only we had a way during to not:

• Feel judged

• Relieve the fear of failing

• Feel pressure to satisfy constantly

• Compare ourselves to unrealistic standards

• Think about our past experiences that created a complex

Well, there is. I am going to tell you what men and I all over the world want in the bedroom.

Things EVERY Man Wants In The Bedroom

There is nothing sexier in the bedroom than a woman who:

• Doesn’t judge but encourages. For example, if a man can’t get it up, don’t concentrate on it. It will only make it worse. Have him do other things to you instead and act your heart out.

• Has enthusiasm. Men love sounds, dirty talk, and communication during sex. It lets him know he’s doing things right and eliminates all the guesswork.

• Is Open-Minded. I personally love trying new things, new places, and so on. A woman who is onboard with things or at least keeps an open mind to it is very sexy to a man.

• Makes him feel masculine. Men want to feel like men when they’re doing such a raw and primal act. He wants to know that he’s satisfying you and that he's specifically meeting all your needs.

• Initiates. I think a man should initiate and invest in his woman but a woman who makes a man feel wanted is the sexiest thing.

What does this mean for you?

You don’t have to know how to jump on the pole in 11 different ways, give porn star blowjobs, or so on. I promise you, the only men who care about that are men who constantly look at porn and see you as an object for their fantasy.

The best sex I personally ever had was with someone who had no idea what she was doing but she was fun and open to learning. Nice eyes help too :)

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